"i'll treat you like a priority so that YOU don't go off and pursue other options...but as soon as I have other options, you'll move from a priority to an option."
SURPRISE!...wham!
a friend of mine quoted this the other day over lunch. she's had some negative experiences with a certain type of man...no, "guy" is the better word, i think.
can i just say that this is not an uncommon thing? i've heard four stories of this in the last 5 days!!!
it's so frustrating!!!
living in a culture that doesn't raise up and release real men...is hugely depressing. they bounce from woman to woman trying to work out their wounds...leaving hoards of feminine broken hearts who couldn't be medicine enough to make it all better...
simply because this type of guy can't help but be parasitic...
it's so hard...and heart-breaking. so many girls are walking around dazed and confused at how they must have been the problem...classicly too much or too little...not pretty enough...not tough enough...not enough of a doormat...the sick disease of the heart left in the wake of his sailing ship.
and the thing is...no girl can solve this for him.
it takes a "man" to teach a "guy" to be a "man"...
but "getting some" and moving on...or "putting down to build up"...and on and on and on...it's just way easier to do than get it together.
how will we even recognize a real man when he comes along anymore? looks are so deceiving...
and few realize how truly terrifying it is to risk it all...all over again...
just has me thinking of late...more common than not, it seems.
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