apparently i have a propensity to upset people without even knowing it. goodness!!!...i wish it actually worked when i wanted it to. (just kidding...k, maybe not.) :) just reminds me, though, how much we never really know what does or does not offend. why?...because we really don't know that some people are rejected easily or feel disrespected in a heartbeat. at least, we don't know until we do or don't do something that troubles the waters.
but here's my dilemma...how much do we walk on eggshells around those people who do feel things at the drop of a hat...even when that's not the intention in the least?
where's the line between being codependent so someone's world is never rocked and proceeding towards ends and hoping situations help people resolve their issues?
granted, i'm enough of a proud person to be tempted to sometimes think it's stupid to be upset about things that i'm not angry about. yes, i know that's wrong...it's a part of my journey. but, in the moment that there might actually be a point to thinking so...what should be my response?
frustrating...
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