meeting men that have kids is an interesting situation.
don't get me wrong...it's not that i don't want kids...not true at all! i would love that and totally don't care how they come. it's just that kids' hearts are also important, and i want to be very careful about doing anything that would cause unnecessary pain. granted, change is a tough thing for anyone, and i'm sure there's always some measure of discomfort in any transition. but the weight of wanting to do the right thing by them causes me to tread carefully. always has.
i wonder, though, how that personal imperative looks to others. sometimes, i think it seems like i'm distant and/or disinterested. bummer. so how does that work? how should it? should it at all?
see what it's like in my head???
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