Thursday, July 2, 2009

Yowza on the Control Stuff...

goodness, i got an dose of what it's like to live with a control freak tonight. sheesh, i was only a spectator, but i was completely shocked. wow...i'm not even sure what to say. it's left me...speechless.

.........

i can't decide if i should be grateful that i don't have a relationship situation like that or sad for a woman that's trapped in one that's so domineering...or both??

oh my gosh...i'm just...shocked.

it causes me to pause...and think...that...the only way a woman can stay in something like that is to lose her sense of self. hopefully, the thought of that is enough of a threat that she snaps out of it and at minimum asks for things to change. my gosh, to not??? the consequences for her are undeniably tragic...

no man was ever meant to need a woman to lose herself in order for him to feel like a man... if anything, he'd be walking in more of his true masculinity to help release her more and more into her true femininity...whatever that looks like.

wow...wow...wow.

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