here's the thing...i am more and more convinced that much of what happens in our lives...relationships, interactions, challenges, conflicts, all the things we have to have our opinions about...can actually serve as a mirror for ourselves. but all too often we do anything to make our internal angst about everyone else or everything else. we never stop to ask ourselves, "what does this say about me?"
i've got some of that going on right now...and i'm so glad that there's a part of me that's willing to ask that question. why?...because while there are true injustices and challenges in our lives, any and all situations can be stepping stones to more learning and growth.
how sad that we often decide to stay in victim mode, maintaining our complaining and criticizing...what a depressing way to live...and what an irritating person to be around!!!
i wish i could muster the guts to offer that out...hehe. the people who have to be critical about everything...i'd just love to say, "have you ever wondered what your feelings on the matter actually say about you?"...just a thought...hehe.
i'd get killed if i did...but considering that my unwillness to do so might actually say something about fears that i walk in, maybe i should!!! oh dear....
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