The Tale of the Non-Confidential Sort

It's been a year of discovering who of my friends are confidential and who are of the not-so-confidential sort. As such, I've had to make a few changes to my "inner circle". What I don't understand is how the non-confidential types get so frustrated at finding things out a bit later. IT'S BECAUSE YOU CAN'T KEEP THINGS TO YOURSELF!! Uh-hem. Sorry. ;) Is it possible that some people love information more than friendship? I'm thinking so...and that's sad.